The thoughtful one

Every once in a while I hear a story that I think everybody aught to hear. And such is the story told by Oscar. (another made up name) I will tell you a little bit about Oscar but I will change some of it to protect the guilty.  And besides if I do it that way I can even lie about things if I choose to do so.

Oscar is almost as old as I am but he is a whole lot smarter.  And better, as you will see if you keep reading.  He is retired but, as is the case with most of us who have done such a crazy thing, he was bored.  So he started to do volunteer work.  His favorite is taking food, that has been prepared by other volunteers, to St. George's Kitchen.  I went with him a couple of times and cannot believe the good that happens there. Every day they feed many people, most of whom are homeless.  When you go there, even if you do just a little bit of work, you leave with a lump in your heart.  You feel like you have given a gift to God.  And instead of expecting God to say thank you you want to thank Him for the opportunity. 

But that is just part of the story.

Oscar decided that he would get a job somewhere to supplement his meager income.  So he got one at a large grocery store working as a bag boy.  Not too bad for a retired engineer, wouldn't you say?  He loves the job because he gets to talk to all the customers while he gives them smiles and wishes of good will.  He will tell you that he gets a lot more than he gives.  I know I am proud of him.

The policy of the store where he works does not allow tips.  He told me that when he helps people with their carts they more often than not offer him a tip.  He politely tells them that that is not acceptable at that store.  But sometimes they will insist.  So does he take it?  Yes he does, but not before telling them that he does not plan to keep it for himself, but that he is going to donate it to St George's Kitchen. If they ask he then explains to them just how wonderful St. George's Kitchen is and what they do for needy people.  Often they will reach into their wallets and add to the tip because they want to be a part.

Each person who does that leaves with a deep feeling that he or she has made our world a little bit better in which to live.  And from where I stand it makes them all a little bit better also.  Love your neighbor!  In true action.  That is why I am proud to call Oscar my friend.  Now I have three.

See you soon!  Volunteer somewhere, won't you?  Let's all work together to make this a better world to live in.